Parents Are The Key

PEN believes parents desire to raise healthy youth and deserve guidance in successfully navigating this complex role.

Our Mission

PEN is a 501c3 non-profit organization with a mission to support parents in raising healthy, happy humans.

Our Vision

Our vision is for all parents to feel supported and empowered throughout their parenting journey.

Our Commitment to Diversity Equity and Inclusion

To fulfill our mission, PEN must be an organization for all parents PEN prioritizes the recruitment of board members, staff, expert consultants, trainers, and volunteers who reflect the diversity of our community, with an intentional effort to foster and cultivate an environment in which all who are involved with the organization feel welcomed, accepted and appreciated. 

PEN strives to provide a safe environment that facilitates and promotes open and honest expression, without fear of reproach, as well as encourages individuality amongst all who are involved. 

Acknowledging the potential for unintentional shortcomings, PEN welcomes candid and constructive feedback about how the organization can do better. To attract and retain a diverse population of engaged community members, PEN incorporates intentional diversity, equity, an inclusion practices into the parent educational programming and resources.

Our Values

Our work is guided and informed by our beliefs and commitments to these values

1. Relevance

PEN delivers high quality information, tools and strategies that are responsive to the ever- changing needs of parents. PEN staff and volunteers:

  • Stay informed of local, national, and international trends impacting families and communities.
  • Develop and curate content in collaboration with experts in the field.
  • Acknowledge parents as experts on their children and integrating their experience and wisdom.
2. Empathy

You can’t judge a person even when you have walked in their shoes. But, you can seek to understand and share in another’s experiences. PEN staff and volunteers:

  • Meet parents where they are, no matter what.
  • Authentically care and are deeply connected to the love a parent has for their child and the challenges they face raising them.
  • Are vulnerable and normalize parenting by sharing their own experiences, challenges and successes.
3. Passion

PEN eats, breathes and sleeps their commitment to serving parents. This passion shows up when staff and volunteers:

  • Express their love for parents in the way they live their day-to-day lives.
  • Go above and beyond to help a parent who is scared and/or hurting.
  • Access every personal and professional resource to help.
4. Tenacity

PEN’s commitment to helping parents has persisted throughout uncountable social, environmental, school, and community-based changes. PEN staff and volunteers:

  • Strive to be their best at all times.
  • Push the  mission forward regardless of challenges and setbacks.
  • Find the best ways to reach, support, and serve parents.
5. Respect

PEN accepts people for who they are and values their unique differences. PEN staff and volunteers:

  • Honor people’s right to dignity.
  • Strive to provide an environment where people feel safe and welcome
  • Embrace conversations with openness and a goal of deeper understanding and support.

Who We Serve

Parents

PEN provides a community of support, a place to build your parenting toolbox, and a touch stone for dealing with challenging issues.  

Parents of children from kindergarten to graduation come to us for:

  • general parenting information
  • prevention strategies
  • ways to manage risky behaviors
  • information to prepare their child for the future

“The presenter gave a fair, unbiased, unflinching look at the hard truths. It made me feel liberated to face reality and not be afraid to talk about such an awkward, painful, worrisome subject.”

— One parent after attending an event

“We work with students, PEN works with parents, together we work with families”

— Administrator

School Staff, Administrators & Other Professionals

While our main constituents are parents, individuals working with youth and families also benefit from our programming.  Our offerings help them stay on top the most current information and build a professional network where they can learn from others.   Professional development credits are available.

Businesses

PEN’s Lunch & Learn Program is designed to bring virtual or in-person parent education to the workplace. The impact of bringing work stress home has been known for years. Less widely recognized is that parenting stress impacts a person’s ability to concentrate and be productive at work. Bringing cutting-edge information to them at a time that is convenient will leave them empowered and resourced so that they can bring their best self to their job. 

PEN’s Lunch & Learn program has 10 hour-long sessions that will give parents at your business relevant information and hands-on strategies to support them in navigating this complex role.

Our Team

Our trusted team makes it possible for us to do our work.

PEN Board of Directors

Board Chair

Kathy Valentine

Board Treasurer

Matt Bliss

Board Secretary

Lisa Kaplan

Board Member

Matt Eldred

Board Member

Nathalie Pratt

Advisory Board Chair

Sandy Hay

Board Chair

Kathy Valentine

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Kathy is a retired school counselor who has been excited about PEN since she first got involved. Working to help parents navigate all the issues that present themselves is an extremely important part of our mission. She also volunteers with the HOPE Coalition of Boulder County and Colie’s Closet. In her spare time she enjoys biking and dancing.

Board Treasurer

Matt Bliss

Matt is a long-time Coloradan, living here since he was one. He is the proud father of two teenage
daughters. Seeing his kids and their friends go through the COVID school shutdowns and the impact
that had on students and parents is one of the key factors driving Matt’s involvement in PEN. Matt is
excited to contribute to an organization that helps parents navigate the relationships with their kids,
their schools, and all the new challenges kids face today.
 
Matt is a small business owner and water resources engineer in Boulder, Colorado where helps
deliver innovative water supply solutions where water is scarce. He has been involved in Engineers
Without Borders, including trips to rural Ecuador to help design, build, and maintain small community
water supply systems. Matt enjoys being outside skiing, biking and hiking with his friends and family.

Board Secretary

Lisa Kaplan

Lisa has lived in Boulder since 1998 and raised her son here. She is a nurse, mental wellness coach, and longtime community advocate dedicated to supporting families. Over the years, she has helped more than 800 families welcome their children into the world as a birth doula, childbirth educator, and patient advocate. As a Registered Nurse at Children’s Hospital Colorado, she supported families through the challenges of serious illness. Today, in her coaching practice, Free2BYou, Lisa works with teens, young adults, and their families as they navigate relationships, life transitions, anxiety, depression, and other mental health struggles. With compassion and clarity, she has guided families through many stages of development, helping parents and young people manage stress, live with more ease and joy and rediscover their innate resilience. Additionally, Lisa works as an Advisor with Colie’s Closet. As both a parent and a professional, Lisa is passionate about empowering families with knowledge, connection, and hope. She is honored to serve on the PEN Board and to help strengthen family engagement and well-being across the community.

Board Member

Matt Eldred

Matt Eldred is the President/CEO of TLC Learning Center.  Matt has worked with a variety of for-profit and non-profit organizations, both in Early Childhood education as well as other human service organizations.    

Matt has two adult children that are his biggest accomplishments and his pride and joy.  He is also married to his childhood next door neighbor, but she would never have considered him a high school sweetheart.  He enjoys recreational outdoor sports and plays on an adult basketball and softball league.

This is probably enough for the website, but below is additional information if it’s helpful. 

Matt is a past president of nearly every early childhood or non-profit association and organization in Boulder County including the Boulder County Association for the Education of Young Children (BCAEYC), St. Vrain Valley School District and Boulder Valley School District Early Childhood Councils, The Early Childhood Council of Boulder County, Front Range Community College Boulder Campus Early Childhood Council, Human Services Alliance for Boulder County (HSA),  and currently the Secretary/Treasurer for the St. Vrain Community Council (SVCC).  He is active in the Mile High United and on the board of directors for the Longmont Chamber of Commerce.      

Matt is an American Red Cross volunteer, serving as a community first aid and CPR instructor (some say he does this because he is cheap and doesn’t want to pay more for his staff to be trained, but he will argue that.).   

Board Member

Nathalie Pratt

she/her/hers

I moved to Boulder 30 years ago, just after college, with a plan to live here for one year. As it tends to do, life unfolded differently. I fell in love with the community, met and married my life partner, and we were blessed with the responsibility and honor of parenting two incredible humans, who are now building their adult lives. Professionally, I have spent 20+ years working in strategic communications to advance social causes. I am deeply committed to making a positive impact in our communities and on our planet. I first learned about PEN in 2008 when my oldest child was in first grade. Inspired by their programming and mission, I have been involved with the organization since that time. I’m also a passionate outdoor enthusiast with a strong belief in our ability as humans to come together, in connection with our natural world, to create a healthier, more abundant future.

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Advisory Board Chair

Sandy Hay

she/her/hers

Sandy highly values the personal connections and many learning opportunities PEN provides, not only as a parent of young adults, but as a board member. She has participated in the Parent Engagement Network since 2004. She has been a PEN School Team leader at both middle and high schools, board secretary and committee member. Professionally, Sandy is retired from a 25 year career as a registered nurse, specializing in cardiac intensive care. In addition, as the sole staff nurse in 3 new hospital based cardiac rehabilitation programs she has experience in team management, program and protocol development, and patient education. She personally attributes PEN to being a dependable and necessary support during many parenting challenges, especially durizng the teenage years. Sandy is a married mother of 2 grown sons.

PEN Team

Melanie Piazza, Interim Director
Interim Director

Melanie Piazza

Program Director

Paula Nelson

Program Assistant

Nancy Davis

Translation and Design Contractor

Anna Taylor

Interim Director

Melanie Piazza

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As Interim Director, Melanie joined PEN to continue her commitment to building a safer, more supported and resourced world for parents. Born and raised in Seattle, WA, she graduated from Santa Clara University and the first decade of her career as a corporate buyer. After realizing her heart didn’t belong in retail, she took her business and marketing experience and married that with her struggles in early parenthood to form a cooperative co-working, childcare and community center, Family Village, that served parents in the Boulder, Denver and Fort Collins communities for 8 years. Melanie believes parents are not meant to serve as an entire Village for their children and that connecting parents to resources, information and each other is the key to finding resilience and satisfaction through the challenges of parenting little humans. Parent Engagement Network has been working for 25 years to create those opportunities and Melanie is honored to join them in that mission.

Melanie lives in Longmont with her incredible husband and brilliant and talented daughter and son, their two rescue dogs and ancient feisty cat. She loves to travel, eat at local restaurants and connect with people who are more comfortable talking about the depths of life than the weather. 

Program Director

Paula Nelson

she/her/hers

Paula’s vision is to address the underlying issues impacting the health and well-being of youth and families, rather than employing a band-aid approach to problems. As a co-founder and a member of the initial task force addressing increased substance use issues in Boulder, Paula led efforts to establish PEN as a strength-based organization that capitalizes on family strengths and builds protective factors. To Paula, this is at the core of PEN’s work. Paula is also a co-founder and member of the HOPE Coalition of Boulder.  As the mother of 3 grown children and a new grandmother she hopes that PEN’s legacy will continue to build healthy families in the future.

Program Assistant

Nancy Davis

As PEN’s part-time Program Assistant, Nancy Davis provides support to the Program Director. She is so proud to be part of an organization that empowers parents and youth to live their best lives through inspiring and effective programs and events. Nancy is married with three beautiful children. She loves spending time with her family and friends, reading, biking, traveling, and riding horses.

Translation and Design Contractor

Anna Taylor

Anna has lived in Colorado since 1989 and has called Lafayette home since 2007 with her 3 Mexican-American sons. She studied at the University of Guadalajara and later received her Bachelors in Fine Arts and Graphic Design from Rocky Mountain College of Art + Design. She has filled her life with human service volunteering and work including working for Boulder County Human Services, as a paraeducator for Pioneer Elementary and Adams County Head Start volunteer. She did various outreach projects for Boulder County to ensure folks get much needed public assistance. Anna is currently studying at Naropa University to obtain a Masters in Transpersonal Contemplative Art Therapy. As PEN’s Community Outreach Assistant, she strives to bridge the gap between the community and their needs.